My wife and I always did our own research in the past and thought we had it all together.  A friend of ours mentioned utilizing a travel agent to save our time.  From our first conversations with April, I wondered why we ever did this on our own.  She had so many ideas that fit our personalities that we would have never thought of.

That being said, Aruba was beyond gorgeous.  We stayed at the Riu which is an all-inclusive.  There are buffet as well a la carte restaurants.  We came back a few pounds heavier but it was well worth it.  I am scuba certified and the multiple diving spots were great (some of the best) and my wife was able to spend time in the spa while I went diving.  

Thank you for all your help!